No, not at all, as long as I enjoyed his company and the food. But I can’t promise that I won’t laugh! He’s nice enough to take me to dinner, he can pay for it any way he likes. However, if he turned out to be a cheap tipper, that would bother me. A lot.
Come on now….he still got youa dinner right? Tell me now what would u do if you got coupons and money in yor wallet..Doh, surely i use teh coupons to pay with before i touch my doe…give teh poor bloke a chance,..if he uses coupons all the time and even gives you one for birthday, then i would get worried lol
One of mine did, and he also insisted I eat what was on the coupon. At first I was insulted, but he was from England, so I did not get angry. I assumed he was not familiar with how people in the US would feel about it, so I made him a friend for life. I never dated him romantically again, but in later years I explained why the first impression was not a good one. We laughed about it, as he had been working in the States for a couple of years by then. He was more familiar with the culture by then.
By the way, we were both in our thirties!!! He was making mega bucks with a company assigned to the space program!!! He definitely could afford the dinner.
Well, I would get a little turned off if he INTENTIONALLY chose that particular resto because of his coupon. But there would still be a 2nd date (If i like his personality)
a little.
if he was short of money i rather him let me know so i could pay or go to a cheaper place.
if he did it all the time, ie stingy with money, instead of being short of cash and trying to save a bit, then it would put me off the guy, i went out with a guy on a date for a meal, we went halfs but for his half he paid mosty with bagged up pennys, i had to sit there why the waitress counted them out it was so embarresing, i never dated him again
just think positively. I think it will be useful. Maybe his money, that should be used for your first date dinner, can be saved for your next date, or for buying you a gift, or to help you both if you have a difficulty in your relationship.
If he got many of that kind of coupon, won’t it be useless if he just throw it away? Maybe he seldom go to dinner without you, so that he seldom use that kind of coupon..
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
No, not at all, as long as I enjoyed his company and the food. But I can’t promise that I won’t laugh! He’s nice enough to take me to dinner, he can pay for it any way he likes. However, if he turned out to be a cheap tipper, that would bother me. A lot.
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
Lmao! Yes definitely.
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
Uh never thought about it before…
I guess so now that I’ve just thought about it…
Haha x
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
mmm dunno but kinda a cheap ass n v lame
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
hahaha i’d feel bad for him..
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
What the hells wrong with that im sure any of you would want to to save money
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
It’s symbolic of suffering around the corner.
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
Come on now….he still got youa dinner right? Tell me now what would u do if you got coupons and money in yor wallet..Doh, surely i use teh coupons to pay with before i touch my doe…give teh poor bloke a chance,..if he uses coupons all the time and even gives you one for birthday, then i would get worried lol
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
LOL wow I never thought of that either…I guess I would, I’d see it as being pretty damn pathetic.
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
it depends, if they’re young, at least they’re trying
But if they’re older like 19+ then yes its a lame move
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
No i’d think it was awesome that he knows how to save his money and he must not be a broke ass!
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
One of mine did, and he also insisted I eat what was on the coupon. At first I was insulted, but he was from England, so I did not get angry. I assumed he was not familiar with how people in the US would feel about it, so I made him a friend for life. I never dated him romantically again, but in later years I explained why the first impression was not a good one. We laughed about it, as he had been working in the States for a couple of years by then. He was more familiar with the culture by then.
By the way, we were both in our thirties!!! He was making mega bucks with a company assigned to the space program!!! He definitely could afford the dinner.
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
The person is thoughtful of himself, not the partner.
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
Well, I would get a little turned off if he INTENTIONALLY chose that particular resto because of his coupon. But there would still be a 2nd date (If i like his personality)
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
I probably would be too busy rolling on the floor laughing to be offended. Thats a classic
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
yes
looool
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
No way! That’d mean that there’d be no arguing about who pays. Plus, it’s efficient!
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
a little.
if he was short of money i rather him let me know so i could pay or go to a cheaper place.
if he did it all the time, ie stingy with money, instead of being short of cash and trying to save a bit, then it would put me off the guy, i went out with a guy on a date for a meal, we went halfs but for his half he paid mosty with bagged up pennys, i had to sit there why the waitress counted them out it was so embarresing, i never dated him again
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
just think positively. I think it will be useful. Maybe his money, that should be used for your first date dinner, can be saved for your next date, or for buying you a gift, or to help you both if you have a difficulty in your relationship.
If he got many of that kind of coupon, won’t it be useless if he just throw it away? Maybe he seldom go to dinner without you, so that he seldom use that kind of coupon..
July 26th, 2010 at 11:51 pm
yes of course!