A longtime family friend posed this question during discussion and I didn’t have a good answer for her. I place this question in Singles & Dating knowing full well that there are many Internet savvy people of all ages.
With online dating, Speed dating, dating coaches, life coaches – there is still interpersonal chemistry involved. Unfortunately, once people cohabitate and marry – problems and incompatibilities surface in the marriage which could have been detected at earlier levels
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July 29th, 2010 at 9:47 am
I wish to know as well, but I really think it matters on sex appeal, Every guy has a different level…? I don’t know….
July 29th, 2010 at 9:47 am
Well, it’s kind of a no-brainer really – with their looks – very little tops and bottoms, heels that make noise akin to rap beats, etc.
July 29th, 2010 at 9:47 am
well the best way is though something like eharmony.
Dating sites like that actually use a personalty and values test to determine who matches best to what you are looking for. You dont get the chance to ask 100 questions of some girl at a bar before you date her.
Also, depends on the kind of guy you are after and what you as a person are like.
You dont attract a guy, you be yourself, therein attracting the type of person that fits you. This is the mistake that makes bad familys. people trying to "attract" people.
So, if youre a total wh0r3, be yourself. you will get the kind of easy to find sex crased guy that fits you, but dont try to attract someone better that is a family man, because he deserves someone else.
Now if you are a shy quiet p ure family oriented intellectual girl, be yourself. dont try to wh0r3 yourself to get some guy that will only love you for your looks, wait till you find the kind of guy that fits you.
Relationships are something you should NEVER settle for in life. nor should you date someone and try to "change" them. only a foolish moron does that.
So, again. you attract guys, specific kinds, based on who you are, by being yourself.
And remember. if you go for sex appeal, you will get a guy that only loves you for your looks. easyer to find? yes.
Will you screw yourself over and make the kids life hell by creating a dysfunctional family that should have never existed yes.
so…dont settle.