Posted on 26 August 2010
I feel bad saying this, because I consider myself open-minded about people of different races and backgrounds. I date all types of guys — black, white, Asian, Hispanic, Indian, etc. But my ex was so horrible to me, I think I’ve been turned off to Jewish guys for life. I’m actually from a Jewish background, though I’ve never actually practiced the religion. But my ex was Orthodox, very religious. And he treated me like total sh!t. He bullied me. Made me quit my job. Was constantly telling me how stupid/ugly I am. Made fun of me constantly with his friends and parents. Literally destroyed my whole life. He was this ugly, short guy. Had an ugly face and dark kinky hair. He was extremely cheap — the type of guy that would tip on a meal. Even though he was loaded (worth millions), he never gave me a dime. And didn’t work because he was incredibly lazy. Meanwhile, I’m working 50 hours a week and can’t even make end’s meat. Not to mention socially inept … he had no friends (I wonder why lol). I know all Jewish people aren’t like him, but he’s such a stereotypical Jew, and every Jewish person I meet seems to remind me of him. I honestly don’t want another Jewish guy in my life. After being tortured by him, is it really so bad for me not to like Jewish guys?
Yes, I did post on this topic before. Maybe I left out details … he WAS abusive. And he was from a rich family … had a big inheritance, but didn’t work. And I’m not anti-semetic at all. I AM JEWISH lol. I just don’t want to date another jewish guy …
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Posted on 30 June 2010
They act like spoil brats looking for trouble, and do not listen to parents or guardians. Why do they choose to do stupid things to hurt themselves over a selfish reasons. Where is their self respect?
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Posted on 16 June 2010
I’ve been reading a couple of different mangas and watching Japanese dramas and animes. I’m kinda curious because in most of them there is at least one 15-17 yr old female character who is dating a man between the ages of 25-28. In one case I’ve watched, a young 25 yr old man even announces his plans to marry a 16 yr old girl to his parents and they were ecstatic. So i guess my question is: Is it acceptable in Japanese culture for teen girls to date older men?
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Posted on 01 June 2010
I’m turning 16 in two weeks, and that’s the age my parents will let me go on dates with guys. So I’m kinda excited about that! The only thing that sucks is prom is a week before my birthday… So I can’t go to that because I’m not 16 yet. I got asked to prom and everything. Its sad. 
Anyways, just tell me about your first date. What activities did you do? Did you go on a group date or single date? Any suggestions for my first date?
Thanks!
Also, you can read this if you wanna, but you don’t have to. Lol. My uncle was talking to me the other day and asked me if I’m sixteen yet. So I told him I was turning sixteen soon. And he has a son that is a year older than me that hasn’t gone on a first date yet. So he was saying how me and my cousin should go on our first dates together. Like he brings a (guy) friend for me to meet and I take a (girl) friend for him to meet. And we go on a fun date together. Do you think that sounds fun? Cuz I think it does! haha. Pretty fun for a first date. 
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Posted on 23 May 2010
we were e-mailing each other, but called for the first time today. Our families are supposed to have some kind of get-together next month. But anyway, she’s seems really nice, but we were kinda talking about getting together before next month just the 2 of us to hang out sometime. We haven’t talked to our parents about this yet, we were just throwing around ideas here, but i was wondering, do you think this is a good plan? or do you think we should wait?
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Posted on 11 May 2010
I’m dating this guy named cj online, and we’ve been going out for four months now. I really belive i’m in Love, no doubt about it, But there’s times when im just not sure if he could be cheating on me or what. by way, im 12 years old. Im SURE this guy is not 45 years old, i’ve talked to him on the phone, and seen him on cam. Can someone give me tips on online dating? and if ur just going to make stupid comments like "do your parents know about this,?" or "Your to young" then please dont bother to answer.
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Posted on 29 April 2010
I’ve been on a supervised date, but I want to take it to the next level and go by myself. I haven’t got a specific person in mind, but I’m about to go into high school, so my options will evolve. I think I’m old enough and mature enough to handle this experience. How do I convince my parents?
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Posted on 02 April 2010
I dated a Jewish man for 4 years. We were living together. I was almost the woman of his life. I was not because I am Jewish.He loved me so much. During 4 years he was torn in between being with me and having to deal with the Jewish community judging him and telling him he was in the wrong. He had to break up find a nice Jewish girl and build a family. For 4 years his parents were against our relationship even though we loved each other so much. our house was Kosher. I was happy to live like that since these were his heritage and traditions. Eventually the pressure became stronger. His mother would call me the "who*re and had tones of horrible nickname for the catholic girl. I had of course never met her.Eventually his guilt became bigger and even though he loved me he decided to break up. He could not live so torn anymore.
this was a very hard time in our life. We love each other so much, we were best friends. So he left. i was angry, very angry that he did not have faith in our Love. that was his choice and I had to respect it.I could not compete with his god anyway.
His heart was broken, he said he was a broken man.1 month and a half later he met a non jewish girl and starting dating her. He said he needed a rebound , he was so heart broken.
This of course KILLED ME. How could he do such a thing dating a non jewish girl after living me…… how could he have no respect for who were , our love and me?
I lost 16kgs and became quit depressed by such a betrayal.
He has been saying that girl since june. We spoke on the phone for the first time yesterday. he tells me she is nothing
why is that so many Jewish men still think they have the right to take advantage of non jewish women knowing they have nothing to offer them. I find this behavior shameful and disgraceful to others. does it mean that now jewish girl didn t deserve any respect from jewish men?
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Posted on 22 March 2010
im in 10th grade and i think me and this guy want to go out. its just feels so stressful on me cuz i know when i tell my parents its gonna be akward cuz they arent used to that and what my friends are gonna think of this guy. I’m also kinda shy so i dont really know how to act when im dating someone. help??
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Posted on 22 March 2010
i am 20 years old and dating a man more than 10 years my senior. we meet when i was 19 and have been together for a while. i feel like he is the one, and he tells me the same. but we are of two conflicting religions, while neither of us are as religious as our families would hope, i feel like my family will accept him more than his family will accept me. not only do i believe christ was the son of God, but i am african american. i know that his mother will probrably not like me and if we get married my boyfriend is fine with me not converting. i guess i want to know how can i make this work, do i convert? how do i get his mother to understand and like me?
race isn’t an issue where i am from, our parents know that we are an "interracial couple", and that is not the issue. the issue is religion. as well, if i were to remain baptist, my children would be baptist, not jewish and i have already started eating kosher foods, but as i said before, neither of us are as religious as our families would like us to be.
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