ive liked a girl for a really long time, but i recently realized, that what i love is the outside of her, tip of the iceberg that everyone sees, but once i get really into her mind, not like a regular friend, but more than that, less than a bf, i realize, at heart shes a 13 year old girl. i need someone with more depth than she can provide, but what i want, is her. suggestions? comments? iwe are 16 by the way
shes not ACTUALLY 13, i mean that shes not as mature as i want…..sheesh..come on people pay attention here
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May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
Well, I guess it goes back to the saying, "the heart wants what it wants". That said, tread lightly. You already know that she can’t, at least not right now, participate what you want into a relationship, if there is going to be one. Keep in mind that you’re only sixteen. You might be very mature for your age and this is why you want something with more consistency but don’t just write her off either. You never know what the future holds and, right now, your whole existence is about the future. Have fun, be kind, and remember that you’re not at an age where you have to be too serious. God bless.
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
ok
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
that doesnt make sense. you say that you want more than she can provide then you say that what you want is her
you can’t have both so make up your mind
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
ask her out. girls love going out with older guys. as long as your hott!
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
Your young and they’ll will be plenty more girls that you will meet. Stop being superficial and move on.
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
ok r u shure you rly like a 13 year old???
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
I assure you, you’ll find many many MANY more hot, beautiful, sexy, attractive, whatever girls. It’s the rare find that one of those pretty girls is also intelligent, deep, and interesting. I say move on and find better.
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
were smarter than you are! dummy
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
i dont know how much older are u then her? and ask her to date u i guess
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
hmmm. wait shes 13? thats pretty young.
if you only like her for appearances than thats not good for a relationship. try to find someone you like for who they are, because looks arent everything
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
There are people out there who have the whole package, not just the wrapping! Keep looking, you’ll be glad you did!
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
that means U don’t love her.U just like how she looks, its purely physical. Go for someone you can love together with waht you’re looking for.
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
Just gonna have to bite the bullet and either wait around to see how she matures or start dating others. Dating is hard no matter how old you are. Does she want you for more than just a friend?
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
Dude it’s OK. You’re only a teenager, have fun and date her. If she’s hot and she likes you then DO IT. That oppurtunity will come up less than you think. Plus, alot of hot girls pretend to be stupider than they actually are around guys. She could just be doing that.
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
Let me be the first to say
I dated a 16 year old boy when i was 13. and he thought i was great with a good mind and good morals
and GREAT BODY so he said
but 3 months later
I was pregnant
and he was hitting me
i lost the baby
from all his hits
so whatever you do
please dont hit her
*not saying you will or that your like that* just please dont
I get so worried about girls with older guys now that I know how they can beee.
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
You can either deal with her immaturity or find someone else. You can’t change her.
(YOU MEANT THAT SHE IS 16 TOO, BUT ACTS LIKE SHE IS ONLY 13, RIGHT?)
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
Find someone else closer to your age and maybe later after she matures you can hook up.
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
TELL HER!!!!!!!!!!!!
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
ok bottom line she is immature and you want someone who is more mature…try telling (in a round about way) that she is immature…the other user is right…you can’t have your cake and eat it 2. so if u want her deal with her immaturity or move on to someone on your level
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
WALK AWAY!!! Or better yet, RUN…she’s trouble waiting to happen.
You will probably romance her teenybopper mind and she will fall madly in love with you and then….all of a sudden, it will be TRUE LOVE….along with sex too early and maybe a baby before she’s 15.
Son, take my advice, please…leave her alone.
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
you have liked this girl for a long time recently realize that what you love about her is the out side so you have not looked in side her heart to find the real her. Sometimes we are attracted to people for different reasons and age does make a difference sometimes. If you need someone with more depth as you put it than she is not what you want .
good luck
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
no ffense… but good luck finding people that are as deep as they think. i was head over heals for tghis girl, and i was always there for her even when other people totally screwed her over, to pick up the pieces, be her rebound. turns out… she was basically leading me on. peole are not what they seem. even if you swear you know them just remember at this age, people are changing and finding out who they are, so if you go for someone.. they will change and you’ll grow apart. its best to wait untill your like 20 for soemthing serious when people are going to stay the same (mostly) and not change dramatically on you…
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
I would reconsider your actions at this point, I am not sure if you both are 16 or if just you are, you mention at heart she is a 13 year old girl, but either way if you are both 16 or not you are too young to be playing games. If she cannot fulfill what you need that let her go, if all you are interested in is her "outside" then you are playing with fire and are apt to get burned, maybe with time if you are not careful. Look for someone who you enjoy not only their looks, but their mind and heart as well, and allow her to be able to do the same.
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
It’s pure lust! Nothing more. Admire her but start your search for someone that has the qualities you really want.
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
Well you cant have both so you should dumb her if she only has a mind of a 13 year old. most of the time if you want a smart girl she wont look like drop dead gorgeous. but she can be pretty so just either deal or dump her.
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
take things one step at a time. learn from everything and use it as lessons so you can get better at it. sure no problem.
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
I’d hate to say it, but man you should probably not try to go out with her. If you do the whole she is immature thing will just bug the hell out of you. The little things only get worse as relationships go on. If you really want to try it go ahead, but it sounds like her depth really bugs you.
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
Michael, it looks like none of the other answerers read your question. You are both 16 and you think she is 13 at heart. So you think you are more mature than she is. What’s the matter she won’t give you none?
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
If she’s immature enough that a 16 year old boy is saying that then get with her and hold on tight she won’t be like that for much longer.The more immaturity you get from her the funner she will become
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
move on you don’t deserve her
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
I think it would be cool to have a girlfriend/ boyfriend that shared common interests with me. When I was growing up it was all about how the person looked. I’ve seen movies since then where two people are really in tune with each other. I wish I would have had that. I think you should try to be with someone you can have fun with. Try to see how long you can talk about whatever before you run out of things to say. This is the time in your life that you will develope into the man you will become, practice finding the type of person you enjoy and as you grow older you will know who you are and what you want and who you want.
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
You are attracted to her. You desire her. Now take the next step.
You are 16 years old. What is the rush to "find the one perfect for you"?? You are dating. Not married.
You will continue to meet people in your life. As you meet others.. if you find someone that you feel more compatible on a higher level, than take the next step.
Don’t anguish over this. Enjoy your youth and be safe. But allow yourself to try new things… to make mistakes.. and find what is good and bad about love.
It’s a package deal. You can’t have the good without the bad. Just get in the game and live life to the fullest. Someday, you may look back and say… yep.. I dated the best looking and most popular girl in school… and dumped her for the shy one that had it all and I didn’t know it.
C’est la vie! Carpe Diem!
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
well then u want her body not her mind. I cud give u the worng advice an say go for her, have fun then give it up or i cud tell you give up now b4 u hurt her and urself and find someone more indepth. Is mind that matters not body..
May 17th, 2010 at 2:17 pm
Do people actually READ these questions before answering? I get what you mean, and this is what I call a high maintenance girl. I met someone like that but the ages were a bit higher. I told her she was high maintenance and she denied it, but I was right. The first chance she got, she shacked up with a guy and got pregnant. THAT was what I saw in her that made her high maintenance. I was pretty sure that I saw the signs that she wanted a baby. Well, I was smart enough not to be the father. You be smart in the same way, you hear me?